Chrissy & John were attending the 12th Breakthrough Prize Ceremony in Santa Monica on Saturday, April 18th 2026.

Chrissy & Luna were attending the The Daily Front Row’s 10th Annual Fashion LA Awards in Beverly Hills on Tuesday, April 14th 2026.

Chrissy was attending the Fashion Trust U.S 2026 Awards in LA on Wednesday, April 8th 2026.

Elaine Welteroth: You Were Born Enough

Elaine Welteroth—bestselling author of More Than Enough and former Teen Vogue Editor-In-Chief—joins Chrissy for a reset on the lie that keeps so many of us small: the belief that we’re not enough. They talk about how confidence gets “chipped away,” how to spot when you’re performing for approval instead of living for yourself, and what it actually looks like to lead (and heal) in public. Plus: Elaine’s “Hell Yes or Hell No” decision framework to help you choose boundaries over burnout—and build a life that fits.

Key Takeaways

1. The “myth of inadequacy”: why feeling “not enough” isn’t personal—it’s learned, and it can be unlearned.
2. Performance vs. belonging: how to tell when you’re chasing applause (external validation) instead of listening to your own compass (intrinsic desire).
3. Confidence peaks early—and how to protect/rebuild it by creating your own “reflections” when the world doesn’t mirror you back.
4. Intent vs. impact: what real accountability looks like when you get something wrong, even with good intentions—and how to lead through it without hiding.
5. Elaine’s “Hell Yes / Hell No” tool: how to decide what deserves your time, and how to negotiate a “no” into a “hell yes” that actually aligns with you.

Julia Minson: Disagree Better: Hold Your Ground Without Lighting a Match

Harvard professor Julia Minson joins Chrissy to break down why most “conflict” isn’t about bad people—it’s about missing skills. She explains how disagreement turns toxic when we slip into judgment, certainty, and a win/lose mindset, and why “good intentions” don’t count if the other person can’t hear them. Then she gives a practical toolkit—naive realism, “listen with your mouth,” and her HEAR framework—to help you say what you mean, lower the temperature, and preserve the relationship for the next conversation.

Key Takeaways

1. Disagreement ≠ conflict: conflict starts when you judge the person (you’re ignorant / selfish / bad) instead of wrestling with the idea.
2. Most fights are “missing skills,” not bad intentions: people aren’t trained to show curiosity, signal respect, or stay regulated when heat rises.
3. Naive realism is the trap: we believe we’re seeing “objective reality,” so if you disagree, something must be wrong with you—and that’s how contempt enters.
4. People don’t want to change their minds—so stop arguing like they do: we assume they’re threatened; really, they’re usually just annoyed you won’t accept their “obvious” truth.
5. A good disagreement builds a bridge to the next one: success = the other person still wants to talk to you after, not “I won.”

Andrew McCarthy: Who Needs Friends? The Male Loneliness Wake-Up Call

Chrissy sits down with actor and writer Andrew McCarthy to talk about the quiet crisis so many men are living inside: friendship drift, isolation, and the shame that keeps them from reaching out. After his son told him, “Dad, you don’t really have any friends,” Andrew drove nearly 10,000 miles across America to reconnect with old friends—and ask strangers a question men almost never talk about: How are you doing with friendship? In this episode, Andrew shares what he learned on the road about why men end up alone, how to restart the friendships that went silent, and how partners can support men without becoming their entire social world.

Key Takeaways

1. A kid’s mirror doesn’t lie: Andrew’s wake-up call wasn’t just “I’m lonely”—it was realizing he wasn’t modeling friendship for his son.
2. Men often treat friends as “background apps”: “I don’t see them, but I know they’re there” feels true—until it isn’t.
3. The friendship skill gap is real: many men have never once talked about their friendship, even with lifelong best friends.
4. Shame is the engine of isolation: the fear of being “not enough” makes men withdraw, go quiet, and disappear instead of reaching out.
5. Providing becomes a prison: the pressure to be the protector/provider can make men feel unsafe admitting they need help—so they go it alone.

Dr. Shefali: From Chaos to Connection With Conscious Parenting

Dr. Shefali—world-renowned clinical psychologist and creator of Conscious Parenting—joins Chrissy to explain why so many parents feel overwhelmed: we’re raising kids with the old tools we inherited, even when those tools don’t work anymore. Together, they unpack the “hidden traps” that pull us into control, shame, and reactivity—and how to shift toward connection, emotional safety, and real repair after we mess up. This conversation is ultimately about raising yourself first—so you can truly see your child, break generational patterns, and build a home where everyone feels grounded.

Key Takeaways

1. Conscious parenting starts with the parent. The real work isn’t “fixing” your child—it’s noticing what your child triggers in you and healing that.
2. Kids don’t need more stuff—they need attunement. Consistent, present, emotionally safe caregiving matters more than money, perfection, or performance.
3. Your child is not your “movie.” A huge trap is projecting your script onto who your child should be, instead of supporting who they already are.
4. Discipline isn’t domination. Real boundaries are calm, clear, and tied to real-life consequences—not punishment meant to restore a parent’s power.
5. Five core practices: release control, look within, slow down and witness, collaborate instead of rule, and prioritize your own healing.

Darnell Lamont Walker: A Death Doula’s Lessons For Dying With Few Regrets

Death doula Darnell Lamont Walker joins Chrissy for a deeply human conversation about what it really means to show up at the end of life—for ourselves and for the people we love. Together, they unpack why death doesn’t have to be terrifying, how culture and ritual shape grief, and what actually helps families when the moment comes, including the often-misunderstood “death rally.” This episode isn’t about making death easier—it’s about making it shared, honest, and less lonely.

Key Takeaways

1. How presence matters more than saying the “right” thing when supporting someone who is dying.
2. Why death is not an emergency—and how slowing down can reduce panic, regret, and conflict.
3. How the “death rally” works and why a sudden burst of energy near the end is a natural part of dying.
4. Why telling your story before you die matters—and how legacy is built through ordinary moments, not grand achievements.
5. How planning for death can actually help you live better now, with fewer regrets and deeper connection.

Dr. Robert Waldinger: The Real Secret to a Happy Life

Chrissy talks with Dr. Robert Waldinger, director of the Harvard Study of Adult Development and author of The Good Life, about what eight decades of research reveal makes life truly meaningful. His answer isn’t money, fame, or achievement—it’s the quality of our connections and how we nurture them across a lifetime.

Five Key Takeaways:

• Relationships Drive Health & Happiness: Warm connections—not wealth, status, or cholesterol—are the strongest predictors of longevity and well-being.
• Loneliness Is Toxic: Isolation impacts the body as severely as smoking, fueling stress, inflammation, and chronic illness.
• Quality Over Quantity: You don’t need hundreds of friends or to be an extrovert—just a few reliable, caring relationships make the biggest difference.
• Connections Require Effort: The happiest people actively maintain relationships through small, consistent actions like phone calls, texts, and shared rituals.
• Conflict Can Deepen Bonds: Tools like the WISER model (Watch, Inspect, Select, Engage, Reflect) show how mindful conflict resolution can strengthen relationships rather than damage them.

Sima Taparia: Why Perfection Is Ruining Your Love Life

World-famous matchmaker Sima Taparia (of Neflix’s Indian Matchmaking and the audiobook Your Perfect Partner Won’t Be Perfect) joins Chrissy to cut through modern dating burnout and unrealistic expectations. She explains why chasing “100%” compatibility keeps people stuck, how to tell the difference between settling and growing, and why flexibility, family context, and real-world connection matter more than apps and endless swiping. This episode is a reset for anyone tired of dating culture—and curious about building love that actually lasts.

Key Takeaways

1. Why no one gets 100% in a relationship—and how chasing perfection quietly sabotages connection.
2. How to tell the difference between settling and healthy adjustment, so you don’t abandon good relationships too early.
3. Why flexibility, patience, and understanding matter more than chemistry alone for long-term love.
4. How modern dating apps fuel burnout—and what in-person connection reveals that profiles never can.
5. Why successful relationships are built, not found, and how shared values and family context support durability over time.

Dan Harris: Even You Can Meditate (And Be Less Reactive)

Dan Harris—journalist, former Good Morning America anchor, and author of Meditation for Fidgety Skeptics—joins Chrissy to demystify meditation for people who think they “can’t” do it. After a panic attack on live TV, Dan found a practice that helped him quiet the mental chaos, stop taking his thoughts so personally, and become “less of a jerk” to himself and others. In this episode, he delivers a no-gurus, no-jargon toolkit: one-minute meditation, straw breathing, self-compassion, and a guided loving-kindness practice you can actually use today.

Key Takeaways

1. Start absurdly small: the brain isn’t built for long-term habit change—one minute counts and compounds.
2. Meditation isn’t clearing your mind: getting distracted is the point; noticing it and starting again is success, not failure.
3. Default Mode Network 101: mindfulness quiets the self-judging, future-tripping mental “default setting,” even briefly—and that’s liberating.
4. Straw breathing for instant regulation: inhale through the nose, exhale long through pursed lips (3–4x longer than the inhale) to settle your nervous system.
5. A five-minute guided practice is enough: breath focus + “start again” reps build attention and create distance from the harsh inner narrator.